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Frequently I’ve noticed myself being fascinated by what others are doing; how they live and everything about others. Now, I realise, while doing what others do I’m losing myself bit by bit. I do things to match them. I do things to try to prove I’m better than them. Probably you do the same, don't you?  Did you ever think why you are trying to match others and/or trying to be better? Ever thought if it is fine to do that? Is it okay to lose yourself?  Well the answer is ‘no’. It isn’t okay to lose yourself in the process of trying to be what others are and/or try to be better than them or trying to be someone that they want you to be.  Every individual is unique and every individual should be respected and accepted the way they are. In order to make others like you or you trying to be like others you’ll be losing yourself and your unique features and our humankind looses it’s diversity. It doesn’t mean that you completely stop changing yourself or not imp...

Here’s something about truth, it is rarely pure and never simple. There has always been something in your life that you don’t know about. Maybe, you know the half truth about it, or someone hid it from you or probably all you know is a lie.  You choose to be what you are, similarly, you choose to believe in what you believe. How do you know what to believe in and what not? Unfortunately, there’s no trick to it. Like how everyone has to live their lives alone and die alone, trusts and believes differ from person to person and they have to face all of it alone, the truth and the lies.  When you can live with a lie, without knowing something, why not? Why hunt for something that you’re not even sure of? Why try to pull the trigger in the dark without any target? That’s where curiosity and doubts start their work. The curiosity to know that one thing you doubt will be born on its own. You don’t have to do anything and you will not, once it is into existence it ...

Have you ever thought, if nobody questioned anything, how would we come this far in terms of advancements and development?  'Why' is the beginning of a new change. 'Why' is where something completely new and different unfolds. 'Why' tells you that limitlessness has no limits. 'Why' is why we don't stop discovering and inventing.  Look around, everything you see began with a 'why'. When Newton asked why that apple fell down and not flew away in the sky, gravity was discovered. Many such well know theories, laws and other things came into existence when they asked 'why' and they were willing to know.  'Why' does not always help you discover something as great as gravity, 'why' does many other significant things on a smaller scale as well.  Certain events in your lives are probably holding you back; for once right now with a lot of courage and willingness try to look back, all over gain and think ...